quote of the day: “I don’t just want to feel kinky, I want to feel *abnormally* kinky” -Yami
After an afternoon skirting around, and blatantly approaching the topic of sexuality between far too much work over ICQ has gotten to my head. I need to go home and “lay down”. This is a pathetic shadow of the post that I meant to make, but I’ve suddenly started thinking about audience again, and wonder exactly how many of you want to hear about (or more likely, will get neasous from hearing about) my sex life.
good day.
heh… nice. (maybe this comments page is hidden enough.)
Well, essentially I chatted all afternoon (between work, of course) about her desire to dye her pussy blue. This led to the overarching discussion of sexuality in general, and fetish more specifically. Her quote actually sums up the discussion quite nicely, since we’re both fetish fetishists. She said the thought of a new fetish often turns her on more than the fetish itself. That’s true enough for me too, I think, but I’ll add “trying anything new” to my list of fetishes anyday.
The blue pussy thing led to a recolection of when I was in HS, and wanted to soak myself in a bathtub full of ritt dye. I thought I’d be able to breathe for an hour or so through straws, and was going to leave no part of my body un-dyed. (This was before the days of blue man group, btw.)
I suppose that’s not terribly sexual, but we talked about lots of other stuff… There was no overarching point to all of it, but I did get terribly turned on, which isn’t something that’s suppose to happen in cubeland. Yami and I used to date, briefly, and we’re both in relationships (she’s also in CA) so it was all random and pointless flirtation. I think maybe she meant less by it than I took from it, but that’s probably one of my weaknesses.
I also realized that my sex life is somehow complicated without benefiting much at all from its complexities. I need to start having sex parties at my place or something. I actually might even know some people interested in this prospect. (I’ve just got to convince Laura that it’s a good idea. ;) But today, in retrospect, I realize that having an interesting sex life (with more people than just laura and I involved) will doubtless take much more time and effort than I have to spare.
Yami is, btw, quite the rare gem. And damn her for living in california.
Sat 15:46
I was reading this pretty much exlusively for the sex life topics. I am a vicarious man.
Sat 09:24
bring it on!
Fri 18:24
My parents read my blog, though, so I don’t spend much time there talking about sex… I’ve been thinking of starting another, strictly anonymous, for sex and angst and all that exhibitionist-in-controlled-circumstances jazz, but so far it hasn’t happened.
Thu 01:24